人的一生会遇到四个人
人的一生会遇到四个人

第一个是自己,
第二个是你最爱的人，
第三个是最爱你的人，
第四个是共度一生的人。

首先会遇到你最爱的人，然后体会到爱的感觉；
因为了解被爱的感觉，所以才能发现最爱你的人；
当你经历过爱人与被爱，学会了爱，才会知道什么是你需要的， 也才会找到最适合你，能够相处一辈子的人。
但很悲哀的，在现实生活中，这三个人通常不是同一个人；
你最爱的，往往没有选择你； 最爱你的，往往不是你最爱的；
而最长久的，偏偏不是你最爱也不是最爱你的，
只是在最适合的时间出现的那个人。
你，会是别人生命中的第几个人呢？
没有人是故意要变心的，他爱你的时候是真的爱你， 可是他不爱你的时候也是真的不爱你了， 他爱你的时候没有办法假装不爱你；
同样的，他不爱你的时候也没有办法假装爱你 。 当一个人不爱你要离开你， 你要问自己还爱不爱他， 如果你也不爱他了，千万别为了可怜的自尊而不肯离开；
如果你还爱他，你应该会希望他过得幸福快乐， 希望他跟真正爱的人在一起，绝不会阻止， 你要是阻止他得到真正的幸福，就表示你已经不爱他了， 而如果你不爱他，你又有什么资格指责他变心呢？
爱不是占有， 你喜欢月亮，不可能把月亮拿下来放在脸盆里， 但月亮的光芒仍可照进你的房间。 换句话说，你爱一个人，也可以用另一种方式拥有， 让爱人成为生命里的永恒回忆，
如果你真爱一个人，就要爱他原来的样子—爱他的好，也爱他的坏： 爱他的优点，也爱他的缺点， 绝不能因为爱他，就希望他变成自己所希望的样子， 万一变不成就不爱他了。 真正爱一个人是无法说出原因的，
你只知道无论何时何地、心情好坏，你都希望这个人陪著你； 真正的感情是两人能在最艰苦中相守，也就是没有丝毫要求。 毕竟，感情必须付出，而不是只想获得；
分开是一种必然的考验， 如果你们感情不够稳固，只好认输， 真爱是不会变成怨恨的。 两人在谈情说爱的时候， 最喜欢叫对方发誓，许下承诺我们为什么要对方发誓， 就是因为我们不相信对方，我们根本不相信情人， 而这些山盟海誓又很不切实际：
海枯石烂、地老天荒，都不能改变我对你的爱! 明知道海不会枯、石不会烂、地不会老、天不会荒； 就算会，也活不到那时候。
许下诺言的时候千万注意，不要许下可以实现的诺言， 最好是承诺做不到的事， 反正做不到的，随便说说也不要紧， 请记住：”不可能实现的诺言最动人”
在爱情里，说的是一套，做的是另一套；
讲的人不相信，听的人也不相信。 你呢？找到了第几个？ 茫茫人海中，你遇见了谁？谁又遇见了你

Something I found on a friend's blog, I thought this is really meaningful!
You give my life a brand new start...
10:58:00 AM

Its been ages since I last blogged online. Each time I visit my own blog, I will be reminded of updating, but somehow, just like how my girl puts it, "Don't you think it feels weird to be announcing to the world about your life?", it dawned upon me that this has become more than just an avenue of de-stress. What prompted me to add a sudden entry was what I have saw and heard, read and understood. Perhaps I may have misunderstood, but what ever it is I am a little sad and disappointed. Joy, if you happen to be reading this entry, perhaps it may be time you should let your sister amd brother know too. We may be cousins, but we seldom exchange words, I understand that you may have your own reasons as to why it seems so hard for us to communicate, but whatever it is,we all care! You may have converted, you may choose to believe in what you believe in but whatever happens, blood still flows thicker than water. My mum may not like the thought of converting and I truly understand why "Da Yi" and "Yi Zhang" is trying so hard to help the family accept this new faith. Perhaps, it could be better if we talked about other stuffs in life other than just religon. You should know that it takes time for people to accept this new faith, it takes miracles to convince people.


That aside, I have come to know that Joey is mixing with a company of friends not so desirable and perhaps at his age just like me, my brother and chuan have gone through, its normal to be rebellious. But it would be good if he can be more cautious. Its never wrong to make friends as long as he is sensible enough to make RIGHT choices. More importantly, one point you should never FORGET is that WE ARE FAMILY as much as you dislike or loathe us, WE ARE THE ONES who will stand by you no matter what. Friends come and go, you may disagree! BUT REMEMBER, we are there and its for better or for worst, we must learn to stay that way. I hope to see you people more and not just on CHINESE NEW YEAR, don't come to regret taking everything for granted only when things happen. ALL IT TAKES IS FOR YOU TO STEP OUT OF YOUR SHELL, JUST LIKE THE REST OF OUR COUSINS, WE WOULD LOVE TO HAVE YOU HERE.........I bet GOD advocates more than just praying, but family ties too....DO CHERISH......=)
You give my life a brand new start...
12:09:00 AM